I like it when things work the way they are supposed to work. This goes for everything from computers to relationships between humans. The other day I saw an employer meet her helper with some shopping bags, this is not an uncommon sight. However what was uncommon was the way this employer treated her helper...with actual respect and love!
The lady (employer) had two bags, her helper offered to take both, but she insisted on carrying one on her own. As they walked down the street the lady was chatting, laughing and even had her arm around her helpers shoulders....I over heard her complimenting her helper on how good her haircut looked!! It was like they were sisters or mother and daughter!!
This should a picture of of this relationship works....in Hong Kong we have created a culture where domestic helpers are often treated as if they were inferior. Why? Cause these people are ..hmm how should I put it lightly....moronoic, selfish idiots...
Respect, what does it mean to you?